Here we are, two weeks after our amazing natural birth and I am finally able to sit and share our story. First let me start by saying, there is NO wrong way to birth, I think all birth is amazing! I was so eager and excited to have a successful natural birth and I can finally say it went exactly as I prayed it would.
I know my blog is very focused on my photography and my business but these last few months have been consumed with everything pregnancy, new baby and post pregnancy. We will be continuing back to our normal routine posts and back to more photography as usual. For now, here, is my birth story.
Monday August 17th…a couple days post Due date, eager and ready were all I was feeling. The pressure from everyone around was becoming frustrating, “When are you going to have that baby?” “Just get induced already!” “Can you have that baby today so we have something to do……..!!???!!” UMMM WHAT….I talked my WHOLE pregnancy about how I didn’t want to give out my due date so people didn’t expect him to be here by a date…because as I’m sure you are aware..babies don’t know dates :O. Crazy right??!!?? I was in no hurry (although everything hurt, and naturally I couldn’t sleep anymore) I knew he would come when he was ready, and what was a few more days..it had been over 40 weeks anyways (*rant over*). So back to Monday the 17th, I had my post DD doctors appointment, and decided to get my membranes stripped since I could tell my body was trying (for about a week) to go into labor, It couldn’t because Cruz was sunny side up, which can prevent your body from going into full blown labor and I knew I was on the verge. So my appointment was at 11:30, after I decided to go on a walk (per my midwife’s suggestion) so I got home, walked for 45 minutes, ate lunch and walked target to finish getting a few things I knew the boys would need before the time came. Well come 12:30 (YES one hour after my appointment) IT started…A contraction…strong enough for me to say…OUCH…maybe I should call my hubby and give him a heads up..and then some other stuff started but, I will save you the gory details.
By 2:30 The hubby came home, my mom and grandmother took our big boys home with them so I could labor and focus on my contractions with out the chaos of a 1 and 3 year old. We hung out, walked some more and around 5 when contractions where 2-3 minutes apart I thought we should head in. We arrived at L&D and checked in, and i got the news I was basically exactly what I was at my doctors appointment earlier (3cm)..a HUGE disappointment since my contractions where close and STRONG. Per their advice we walked for an hour and there was a tad progression but not enough to make me stay…they suggested “Go home, rest…(HAHA) and I’m sure you will come back tomorrow in labor” so we did, we left and got home around 9:30, went ahead and got more of our bags ready because I just knew this was it. We did some relaxation techniques and my contractions spaced back out so I took a bath and decided to hit the bed, once I started to fall asleep my body said NOPE…and the contractions got HARDER, I had Chris grab the timer and start counter pressure on my back because the back labor was so incredibly painful. The contractions stayed 8-12 minutes apart and never evened back out, it was so frustrating because that was what was keeping me from going back in. I could not sleep with the pain so I hopped into the shower, I don’t even know how long I was in there but I will say once my last contraction in the shower brought me to my knees, I knew we had to leave. Something told me to go-NOW. I woke Chris up who fought me on how “my contractions weren’t even regular”aka-i want to sleep but, I told him to trust me and we were off, by this time its roughly 2:30 in the morning. We arrive back to L&D and quickly get checked (it was fast since we were there earlier) and am immediately told “oh lets get you a room” I was a little over 6cm. They walk me back to a labor room, hook me up to a monitor (I was required to be monitored for 30 minutes while they filled up our labor tub.) Horrible, worst 30 minutes EVER…you cannot just LAY there and naturally labor this far into things…its terrible,and, as soon as the monitors got hooked to me I hit transition (7+cm)….HARD…i started shaking, vomiting and my water started leaking. I knew what this was because I had read about it in all our natural birthing books. Once our tub was FINALLY filled Chris and I jumped right in, it was glorious. It did NOT take away the pain but was a wonderful distraction and helped me relax and get into a state of meditation I didn’t even knew I could This moment was beautiful (from the outside) as my husband rubbed my back, kissed me and told me how amazing and how strong I was. about an hour-ish into our tub laboring I couldn’t do it anymore, I was yelling “I CANT” at the very top of my lungs and then I knew what that meant…I WAS THERE, he was almost here, I was at the VERY END. My midwife grabbed my hand and said, “you’re almost there, you’re doing so wonderful,” I was so hot in the tub (they accidentally got it to hot and it wouldn’t cool), I felt as though I was going to pass out from the heat so I decided I needed to get out and went with my gut which told me to go to the bed and get on all 4’s…I started pushing in the tub prior but nothing was happening. Once on the bed I started pushing again and my midwife had to finish breaking my “incredibly strong water bag” so I could get this baby out (mind you I was fully dialated and in a ton of pain). I then felt him move down and pushed like hell for 30 LONG minutes… and he was HERE. I flipped over faster than I ever imagined so I could grab my beautiful little boy. It was the MOST incredible moment. I had been yelling for who knows how long “I can’t do this” and I DID…so now naturally I was saying with pure glee “I DID IT, I DID IT!!!” Cruz Alexander Knox was born at 5:15am, 100% natural weighing 7.8lbs. and 21 1/5 inches long.
I hear far to often “Why would you want to go natural..its not like you get a reward/medal for it…” and let me tell you, when its something you want so bad, its more than getting a reward…you now have this incredible bond with your body and your baby, you know what you are capable of and Its a whole new level of something you have never experienced until you experience it yourself. I have never been so proud of myself, and in such awe of what my body can do. I remember feeling Cruz kick so hard to move down and help with labor, doing stuff he wouldn’t have been able to do if I were to have had any other labor. I did get a reward, it was the amazing birth I prayed so hard for and a beautiful healthy baby boy <3.
I would like to say a huge shout out to an incredible birth photographer Liliana Leahy Photography. I am going to include our amazing slide show of our birth (<<<video here) she made for us, ENJOY! Please contact this wonderful woman to photograph your birth if your looking for a birth photographer. I was so amazed with how she captured EVERYTHING i ever wanted. http://www.lilianaleahyphotography.com